MORE: 7 Things A Man Wants In A Serious Relationship At the end of the day, every man wants this one special woman who makes him feel this way. When he feels seen by you, he will light up and his whole demeanor will change when he feels like you get him and you know him on that deeper level. You observe and get to know what is most important to him in life. “I noticed that you’re really good at _” or “I’ve noticed that _ makes you _”. What this means is that you simply pay attention to what drives him and you let him know that you “see” him.
Men don’t want to feel weak or down and out. This doesn’t mean you are jumping up and down next to him like a cheerleader and trying to do everything for him. So few women know and understand this about men so it’s almost like a super power when you “get” it. When you understand this and what he wants, you become that irreplaceable woman in his life. This is the woman I want to give myself to for the rest of my life”, you need to understand this concept of being intertwined with his inner world. If you’re looking for a man to say to himself, “This is the one. Whether he knows this consciously or not, he can feel it in his gut that you are in his corner and by his side. You see him for who he is, you see the good in him, and you are his rock. You are a positive presence in his life and shield him from the things that kill his motivation, his drive, and that bring him down. MORE: Does He Love Me? 9 Things He’ll Do If He Truly Loves You (So You Know)Īs his potential partner, you inspire him and build him up. You make him feel like he can conquer anything and that he’s becoming a better version of himself and the best man he can be in life. This is one of the biggest and most important distinctions between a casual hookup and someone he can see marrying and being with for life. To have you in his life gives him a sense that he’s a better man, you bring out the best in him, and you make him feel like a winner in life. Even if he doesn’t have his life fully together or his future figured out, he knows he wants you to be a part of it because you make everything in his life brighter.
One of the big signs a man wants to be with you is that he sees you as a part of his future. You fit into the “big picture” and the vision he has for his life, what he wants and where he’s heading. While similar to #2 (he integrates you into his life in the external realm), this is about how you fit into his inner world as a man.
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